That’s a difficult question to answer without knowing more about your relationship and the dynamics between you and your wife. Each couple is unique and each person may have different reasons for wanting or not wanting certain activities. Ultimately, the decision is up to your wife, and it might be difficult to convince her to try something that she is not comfortable with. That said, communication and connection are key. Talk with your wife and share why you are interested in this activity, what it might do for your relationship and the pleasure it might bring to both of you. Be respectful of her boundaries and listen to her concerns. Most importantly, ensure that you prioritize her pleasure, safety, and comfort.